CLAUDIA DE STEFANO

My mother, Claudia who I can talk today fluently about everything that happened to me is my past did not hesitate one second to trust in what was happening to me as something natural.

“ TO WHO DESPITE THE ADVERSITIES COMPOSED IN MY LIFE DECIDED TO ACCEPT THE TREATY ”

Matias G. De Stefano, 2006.

HI, I am Claudia, Matias´s mother. I have write many emails and talk to many people about Matias, but this is the first time I do it knowing many people will read this. Searching for support just as I did sometimes.

I red many books after Matias turned 15 years old, the truth is that I could see myself reflected in these stories but the difference was that I did not see my son as a highly gifted person, I saw Matias as a teenager who needed my help.

Even though I have Heard Matias saying in our kitchen at the age of 15 years old, many things that later on i red in books as “many lives, many masters” (Brian Weiss).

I am going to talk about the adolescence because his childhood even thought it was not as many other children, it was very good. He just to paint, sculpt, mould the clay as I have never seen anyone doing, he just to talk with animals and plants, any animal or plant he could find in the street always ended up in our garden, he was a great story teller always maintaining his friends busy but telling them all kinds of stories and with me he talked about his fairies.

But at the age of 12, everything changed, he stopped enjoying himself that much, he became more worried about everything (not for his surrounding) but for the whole humanity, he said to me that he could felt the pain of everybody and he had many dreams. From this moment on two things happened. First, he stopped playing and sculpting and started to write on the computer for many hours, when I red what he had written I will ask him where would he that imagination from with all those rare names. His answer was: it comes to my mind without even thinking; the second thing that happen was that his school suggested me to bring him to a psychologist, then we started to see many doctors who gave me a diagnosis which I did not accepted. From being a happy boy to become the schizophrenic teenager for talking about the universe as his home and for remembering his past lives times as if he had just passed them, I wanted him to be helped but not medicated, I wanted him to feel relax and to believe he was not the only one happening this things and that possibly there was more children we didn’t met yet with the same matters.

Before Matias was 15 we did not hear to talk about indigo children. At this point we were living at Spain and one day he said to me that these children called indigo had something to be with him, we were at a library in Barcelona and it was there where I bought my first book, I red this book in one day and I could not believe I was Reading our lives, with the difference that for me he was not a highly gifted person, as I said before, he was a teenager that knew many things without studying about the universe and how to organized the world ad many more things, but still he did need help.

In Spain I also went to different psychologist recommended from school, it was in Argentina we found a psychologist who could listen and understand, and answered many questions, this matter for him was more than a medicine to be able to talk with somebody who could understand what he had to say.  Being in Spain I thought that probably we will find someone who could help, because after the bad times we lived, there was always somebody coming when we least expected, because every time he says that someone will show up to help him, that someone eventually appear.

SO in 2005 we found this someone, from that moment a new world opened up for him. Since them Matias always had clear his objectives about what he had to do, although the paths were not always the best ones, he also said to me that he was going to need me to help him organize everything he was going to do.

This is how back in Argentina we started to work on this web page, his principal objective is the Young people, the ones that in this moment are experiencing what he did experienced, his studies as anthropology failed but he did not lose his faith, he thinks one day he will find the alternative method to help young people to face the traditional education and to be able to change it, and also help many parents that don’t know how to handle the difficult period of adolescence and be able to help their children, knowing the high wisdom they all bring to the earth. Many people tell me that is was not easy to do what I did and that they are very grateful for supporting Matias when it was required, just by listening and trying to understand what he was explaining to me. (From the acknowledge my, about all these topics).

Matias today is 21 years old and we are working together in this, he puts his knowledge of all these years and me the organization. I hope this letter gets red by a son or daughter who gives it to their parents and if their parents read it and want to talk with us, we are willing to listen and help. Because this is what I was looking for when I sent emails and consult people, I simply was looking for someone who could listen and give me an orientation about what was what we were experiencing.

Thanks to all the people who accompanied me through the process, and all the strength to those parents who are experiencing the same in this moment. Send you a big hug and good luck in this third millennium coming.